We had an incident this morning, only because I said I would like some peace and rest.....so he said he will not talk to me until 12.00 noon....he is out of his mind...if I make a balance of how happy I am most of the time is 20-8- and sometimes it 40-60 however most of the time I am happy...these are according to others the normal marital things....I talked to a friend of mine just now and she had a blow up with her husband who came home late and drunk....my hubby does not do that but he has other thins...He's on FaceTime now with his friends who think he is the most perfect and nice guy on this planet....if only they knew....but no matter what the 80% wins and I love him no matter what...just remember...I am only venting which we all need to do once in a while...