Ingrid was with my cousin she left him and she married Johan. They are the nicest people and to me Ingrid is more family to me than my siblings are, and that's how I treat her as well. Johan is on this bed because of a really bad back he just had surgery and they have removed 4 herniated discs, here he is how do you feel, he says he's ok but he is in dire pain. Sometimes you got to go through more pain to heal and get better, I have made some curry chicken for Johan and Ingrid...I am on my way to mom after this and I will keep you posted.