I can keep talking about menopause, all the juices dry out in your vagina and intercourse is painful, so make sure you find out what is a good solution for you...lots of couples break up in the menopause....During intercourse and a great climax your body created nice hormones which are great for your body...so its good to have intercourse but if it hurts you don't want to do it, lubricant is an option. It's so unnecessary, making love is you beautiful you do not have to give it up. During menopause a woman is irritable, easy to be trigged talk about it, I cried a lot and cried about nothing...I thought I was a loser....please reach out for help to your doctor you do not have to go through this.