So hubby has his tantrums again...it has to do with changes, he hates he can't handle it....so what doe he do??He reacts it all off on me...he got 3-5 day tantrums now and I and so tired right no....I mean in every marriage shit happens and how you deal with it defines your marriage, the stronger you are the stronger your bound will grow. I keep forgiving him and move on, I love him very much and thats why I put a lot of energy in him...I am sharing this with you because It might look like he is always the bad guy...which is not always the case...I remember in the beginning of my menopause I wanted to kill him with a pan...no joke he was riding me instead of cutting me some slack....omg...but this is what makes us stronger....I know this is god honest and to some women very identical...but who really dares to talk about it like I do??